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Week 1: Claim Your Dream + Make Yourself A Priority

Your ONE THING (habit) this week is getting setup in the program:

  • Start Attending Feel Good 45 every day. (The healing is in the hangout!)
  • All day, every day ask yourself, “What do I need right now to feel mentally, emotionally, and physically well?”

Note: This program is best consumed on a desktop/laptop computer (not on mobile devices) the first time through.

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1. Fill out your weekly check-in form every Sunday!

Betty Jean reads these personally every week and designs your weekly habit, weekly lesson, + all your weekly goodies based off what YOU need, week by week.

2. Complete your weekly module.

You’ll receive an email every Sunday letting you know when to start your next module.

Do NOT skip your modules. Do NOT jump ahead, either. You are here for 12 weeks… make them count by taking full advantage of all the goodness we shower you with!

For the audio lessons in this program, click here to see how to download your weekly audios in Soundcloud.

Click here to download the Soundcloud app.

3. Do your weekly habit.

Every week you will be assigned ONE THING. That is your weekly habit. This ONE THING is where the changes happen. NOT in just listening to the lessons.

You gotta do the work and the work is your ONE THING.

4. Never miss a Feel Good 45.

Change is easy when you do it with friends! We are here to support you, but we can’t do that if we never see you.

At Being Badass, the healing is in the hangout. Your success (or lack thereof) is directly related to your attendance. Studies prove it.

• Feel Good 45, Monday – Friday at
7:15am PST / 8:15am MST / 9:15am CST / 10:15am EST

Your success is directly correlated to your attendance. If you find yourself thinking “this isn’t working,” ask yourself…

      1. “Have I attended 100% of the Feel Good 45 sessions and actively participated?”
      2. “Am I telling myself ‘I’m hopeless’ or ‘nothing ever works for me?'”

If you have not attended 100% and actively participated… AND if you are regularly telling yourself “that nothing works for me,” then that is why you are not seeing the results you want to see yet.

“Nothing ever works for me” and “I am hopeless” are I Am Not Enough thoughts. You have deep, practiced, neural pathways in “I Am Not Enough” thinking which is why you joined this program. Those very thoughts are the thoughts that one MUST interrupt and reprogram if she is to see herself as enough.

Step 1: Start attending FeelGood 45 every day and ask for coaching around these limiting repetitive thoughts.

Step 2: Listen to the mindset videos 10 times each. Repetition and immersion is how you retrain a self-doubting mind.

You’ve got this, babe! Keep going! Believe that you can do this and you will!

5. Share your daily celebrations in the private Facebook group.

We get what we give so…

SHARE your celebrations…
 SHARE funny, uplifting pictures & jokes…
LEAVE ENCOURAGING COMMENTS on other people’s posts.

Want the world to be there for you? Be there for others inside our Facebook group.

*IMPORTANT: Post as a victor, NOT a victim. Ask yourself, “Am I posting this to get sympathy and feed the victim (the part that believes it is helpless to circumstances and out of control)? Or am I posting as the victor (the woman who is standing in her power and speaking confidently from her enough-ness)? Speak and ask for help from as the powerful woman you are. You are NOT powerless to your circumstance. You ALWAYS have a choice. Stand in your power and post from that place.

Join us in the Facebook group here.

6. Need coaching? Here’s how to get it:

1. Come to the daily Feel Good calls. That’s what these are there for. You have 10 opportunities every week to get coaching. Use them.

2. Submit your Sunday weekly checkin.

7. Make sure to add + to your contacts.

Make sure to add + to your contacts so that you never miss an email from us.

Can’t find an email? Check your junk folder. Not there? Email us here and we’ll get back to you within 48 hours during normal business hours.

By popular demand… the Being Badass Evening Meditation on an hour long loop that fades out quietly. You’re welcome. 🙂


  1. Bless Your Beautiful Body Meditation
  2. Surround Yourself In The Energy Your Body Wants To Experience
  3. I Am Enough
  4. I Am Enough (Extended)

I recently found this podcast and it floored me. Oprah spoke more clearly than I could reproduce, exactly what we are about to do here. Listen to this every morning as part of your mindset reprogramming work. You’ll be so glad you did.

Week 2: Style Makeover With Lea Roman!

Your ONE THING (habit) this week is book your Image Consult with our Beauty Consultant, Lea Roman! 

This is where you will get a total style consult. You get to discuss the style you WANT to step into, learn how to choose clothing that looks great on your body type, what colors of clothing will look great on you, what hair cut, color, and style you could do next, leveling up your makeup look, choosing glasses frames that are best for your face… whatever it is that you need help with, this is your chance to reclaim your confidence and power around outer beauty and learn to shift your energy anytime by playing with or updating your look!

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Make sure to watch both videos as they have important information about the coloration of your photo. Don’t let taking a photo deter you.

One of the most powerful ways I learned to see my body with love was by learning to pose and have fun learning to take photos of myself and NOT pick myself apart in them. This is your 101 and the photo is required to be able to do your session with Lea. So lean in, surrender your judgments, open up and HAVE FUN with it!

Instruction Video 1: Taking Your Skin Tone Photo For Lea

Instruction Video 2: Super Simple Skin Tone Photo for Lea

These have a yellow-ish hue to them due to the Texas sun, so I had to let Lea know that my skin isn’t actually yellow-ish. I’m more white with lots of red undertones.


Was in almost direct sunlight. Was taking inside the house in front of a window with no curtain or shades. Full light.

Too Much Sun - Nearly Direct Sunlight


All of these photos are posted here without filters or any post editing. For the Skin Tone photo, do not filter or edit the photo as it can distort your skin. If you are an experienced photo editor, then you may white balance the photo. But if you are a novice, DO NOT TRY EDITING THE PHOTO.

These first photos are there to help you have the best image consult possible + to get you comfortable in front of the camera learning how to play with your first poses. Be KIND to yourself, remember that you are a beginner (see yourself as a baby learning to walk), and just enjoy the learning process. You are BEAUTIFUL! We are going to help you learn to showcase that!

Items I use to take photos at home alone. Both available on Amazon:

    • Bluetooth Remote Control for phone camera – $7.99
    • Mini-Ring Light + Cell Phone Holder – $15.99
      (Do NOT use the light for your photo for Lea. Use natural light for your photo with Lea. The cell phone holder can be useful as your mount to take your photo now and in week 11.)
    • The prices on these items are subject to change because it’s Amazon.

DO THIS »Click here to complete your Image Consult Intake Questionnaire. 


After you complete your questionnaire, you will be guided to select and book your time with Lea Roman.

On the day of your call, you will meet on Zoom. Make sure…

    1. You are alone in an undistracted environment, not driving your car, not interrupted by work or kids…
    2. Have a stable internet connection
    3. And can use the camera feature of Zoom.

Lea needs to be able to see your beautiful face so she can support you in your style consult. This is YOUR TIME. You cannot reschedule or do it again later. This is your time to do a comprehensive makeover and have FUN reclaiming your power and building your confidence around your personal style and beauty.

You are going to have SO. MUCH. FUN.


»If the internet breaks after you’ve completed your Image Consult Intake Form and you don’t get to book a call, here is the direct link to book your call.

DO NOT BOOK YOUR CALL HERE IF YOU HAVE NOT COMPLETED THE INTAKE FORM ABOVE! BOOK YOUR CALL FROM THE INTAKE FORM FIRST! If, however, you have already completed the form but didn’t book your Image Consult Call, you may do so here.


» Last note: DO NOT WAIT until later in the program to book your Image Consult. Week 2 is designed intentionally for you to do your consult and have the space to start developing your confidence and style. This is a planned and timed part of the process. TRUST OUR PROCESS. Book your call now and start playing with your confidence and style NOW.

Week 3: The Illusion Of Control

Your ONE THING (habit) this week is to listen to each of these trainings AT LEAST twice each. Then use the Control 1-2-3 Method to begin shifting your energy, surrender control, and start feeling like you are enough… because you ARE! You were meant to FEEL GOOD.

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Governing Mindset Required To Succeed: “This works! I’m getting better everyday! I am committed to paying whatever price my dream asks!”

How to change your energy so you can feel good and get what you want:

Step 1Notice the controlling thought.

      • If you feel bad or are suffering right now, you are trying to control some aspect of your reality that is beyond your control. Or you are resisting the price your dream is asking you to pay.
      • Make a list of the negative, self-doubting, and controlling thoughts that you become aware of. Where do you feel powerless to circumstance, out of control, or less than? Write it down on your list. THESE are your controlling “I Am Not Enough” thoughts.

Step 2. Laugh at yourself.

      • Think “Oh, I’m doing that funny thing again where I try to control or resist reality. I’m so funny/silly! I love me!”

Step 3. Choose a thought that feels light, good, and that you have NO attachment or resistance to.

      • Example: Remembering someone farting in yoga class, remembering buying coffee for the person behind you in the drive through, or looking at funny videos or pictures of baby animals. 
      • Do something LIGHT that you have NO resistance to in order to begin SHIFTING the energy. This is how to feel better IMMEDIATELY and start getting momentum in the direction of “I Am Enough.”

Week 4: How You See Your Body = How You Treat Your Body

Your ONE THING (habit) this week is to notice the negative thoughts you habitually think about yourself, your body, and others. Write them down. Then practice using the Interrupting Cow Trick every day to interrupt the negative thoughts and begin to reprogram them.

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Share your experience in the Facebook Group. Make sure you are posting as a victorious, empowered woman… not as a victim who is helpless to her circumstances. You are NOT a victim! You are a badass, powerful woman intentionally claiming and creating her future!

Bonus Trainings

Week 5: Reclaim Your Power... Surrender Your Stories

Your ONE THING (habit) this week is to become aware of what stories you’ve been telling yourself that are keeping you living small and feeling “less than.” Document the stories that come up for you this week (no more than 1-2 each day), then surrender them.

If you need additional support processing the emotions that may come up as you are exploring your stories, you have the following options:

1. Emotional Freedom Technique is designed to help us process and let go of emotions. It is AMAZING! A clinical technique that can be self-administered, EFT is like crazy voodoo magic for reprogramming the neural pathways in the brain. (Don’t worry… it’s NOT voodoo magic! It’s clinically proven science!)

2. EMDR – If REALLY heavy emotions come up, hire a licensed EMDR practitioner immediately. This takes brain reprogramming (i.e. voodoo healing magic) to a whole new level. I cannot recommend strongly enough about how powerful EMDR is for shifting how a woman sees and treats herself in rapid time. 

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Share your experience in the Facebook Group. Make sure you are posting as a victorious, empowered woman… not as a victim who is helpless to her circumstances. You are NOT a victim! You are a badass, powerful woman intentionally claiming and creating her future!

As limiting stories come up, some will feel heavy and need processing. That means it’s time to use EFT Tapping!!

Intro To Tapping

More tapping videos for specific stress topics are available below in the “Bonus Training Library.”

You do NOT need to be a “trauma victim” to use EMDR. EMDR is designed to reprogram deep neural pathways that keep us living in fear and playing small.

Be OPEN. Do you want to feel better fast, experience more joy, and see yourself with love faster than you thought possible?

Great! Be OPEN to the badassery of rapid healing with EMDR. Find a licensed practitioner in your area and add EMDR to your life 1-2 times per week while you are enrolled in this program and you will experience results much faster.

In this video, Betty Jean explains EMDR, why it’s badass, and what to expect.


*If REALLY heavy emotions come up, hire a licensed EMDR practitioner immediately. This takes brain reprogramming (i.e. voodoo healing magic) to a whole new level. I cannot recommend strongly enough about how powerful EMDR is for shifting how a woman sees and treats herself in rapid time. EMDR is NOT talk therapy and it is NOT just for trauma victims. It is serious, clinical reprogramming that can fast-track your healing and how you see yourself. And if you find yourself sobbing deeply at a story that comes up, book a session with a trained, licensed EMDR practitioner immediately. It is out of the scope of our practice to address deeply traumatic feelings that may arise. What you learn in this program NEVER replaces qualified medical advice and YOU ARE RESPONSIBLE FOR YOUR OWN WELL BEING. Make sure to get the help you need to take care of yourself.

EFT Tapping Library

Week 6: Look For Things Where They Are

Your ONE THING (habit) this week is to create and begin using your Emergency List.

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Step 1: Listen to the Instructions

Step 2. Watch this video.

Step 3. Notice & document your triggers on the Emergency List. (Click here to download your Emergency List.)

Example: “When I’m bored at office meetings” could be a trigger. (That’s looking for entertainment in food.)

Example: “When I feel rejected after a date.” That’s food is comfort or love.

Example: “At night when I’m exhausted.” That’s food is rest.

Example: “When I want to have fun, I overspend” could be a trigger. (That’s looking for entertainment in overspending.)

Example: “When I want to feel successful, I buy new things.” That’s looking for the feeling of success in spending.

Example: “When I make more money, then I’ll feel safe.” That’s looking for safety in money.

Step 4. Look for things where they are.

Underneath each trigger, make a list of what you could do INSTEAD of eat, spend, or drink alcohol, or smoke, etc. that would give you what you are actually seeking.

Example: Food is not love. Where could you go to find love where it is?

Example: Food is not entertainment. Where could you go to find entertainment where it is?

Example: Food is not rebellion. Where could you go to feel free instead?

Example: Money can certainly buy entertainment, but if you’re spending money you don’t have, does that make you feel emotionally, mentally, and physically well? Where could you find fun and entertainment that does serve you mentally, emotionally and physically?

Example: Money is not success. Money is something we get in exchange for service to others, for helping others out of their pain or suffering… for helping others get what they want better than anyone else. Where could you go to find the feeling of success right now? Look for things where they are.

Example: Money is not safety. Yes, it can put a roof over our heads and definitely plays into our survival. But you are safe RIGHT NOW. Right now, you have everything you need to feel safe. And the sooner you feel safe right now where you are, the sooner you become a vibrational match to money.

Look for things where they are, not where they are not.

Bonus: Interesting article… Studies Find Overeating & Overspending Go Hand In Hand

Week 7: Pay Whatever Price Your Dream Asks

Your ONE THING (habit) this week is to choose ONE area to work on healing: relationship to food, relationship to money, or romantic relationships.

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Let it be easy. Own it all. Never give up on your desires.

Week 8: Look For The Beauty In Others

Your ONE THING (habit) this week is to look for the beauty in others all day, every day, for the entire week. Celebrate what you see in others… It’s Universe’s way of showing you want’s possible for you.

Week 9: The Art of Allowing

Self-love is the pre-requisite to allowing. Your ONE THING (habit) this week is to notice where you are living conditionally. Then use the Control 1-2-3 and The Interrupting Cow Trick to begin interrupting and reprogramming that self-limiting thought pattern.

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  • “Thank you God for these challenges. I know they are the answer to my prayers. Thank you God that things always work out for me. I don’t need to know the “how”. I trust your process. I know that I need to love to allow and that if I want someone, I must love myself first, then love the rest, and allowing will start to flow.”

Week 10: Hello, Gorgeous!

Your ONE THING (habit) this week is every time you see your reflection in a mirror, window, or anything, say to yourself “Hello, Gorgeous!” Do this all week, no matter how silly, fake, or awkward you feel. Commit to telling yourself “Hello, Gorgeous!”

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This is Charlie Chaplin at age 26, photographed 100 years ago. It’s believed he wrote the poem below at age 70.

As I began to love myself
I found that anguish and emotional suffering
are only warning signs that I was living
against my own truth.
Today, I know, this is Authenticity.

As I began to love myself
I understood how much it can offend somebody
if I try to force my desires on this person,
even though I knew the time was not right
and the person was not ready for it,
and even though this person was me.
Today I call this Respect.

As I began to love myself
I stopped craving for a different life,
and I could see that everything
that surrounded me
was inviting me to grow.
Today I call this Maturity.

As I began to love myself
I understood that at any circumstance,
I am in the right place at the right time,
and everything happens at the exactly right moment.
So I could be calm.
Today I call this Self-Confidence.

As I began to love myself
I quit stealing my own time,
and I stopped designing huge projects
for the future.
Today, I only do what brings me joy and happiness,
things I love to do and that make my heart cheer,
and I do them in my own way
and in my own rhythm.
Today I call this Simplicity.

As I began to love myself
I freed myself of anything
that is no good for my health –
food, people, things, situations,
and everything that drew me down
and away from myself.
At first I called this attitude a healthy egoism.
Today I know it is Love of Oneself.

As I began to love myself
I quit trying to always be right,
and ever since
I was wrong less of the time.
Today I discovered that is Modesty.

As I began to love myself
I refused to go on living in the past
and worrying about the future.
Now, I only live for the moment,
where everything is happening.
Today I live each day,
day by day,
and I call it Fulfillment.

As I began to love myself
I recognized
that my mind can disturb me
and it can make me sick.
But as I connected it to my heart,
my mind became a valuable ally.
Today I call this connection Wisdom of the Heart.

We no longer need to fear arguments,
confrontations or any kind of problems
with ourselves or others.
Even stars collide,
and out of their crashing, new worlds are born.
Today I know: This is Life!

A recommendation from one of the Babes:

Here is the podcast:

Week 11: Morning Reflection Reading

Your ONE THING (habit) this week is to write your I Am Statement Document. Then every morning, look yourself in the eyes and read your Morning Reflection Reading to yourself before or after Feel Good 45. Commit to yourself and do it everyday for at least a week, but I strongly encourage you to KEEP GOING and read it to your eye balls every day.

Week 12: Midway Celebration

Your ONE THING this week is to write your celebration post on Facebook, give us your graduation ring details, and book a 10 minute call with your coach if you’d like to keep the party going and join us in You Are Unlimited!

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1. Write a list of your celebrations in a Facebook post by reviewing ALL of your celebrations out of your celebration journal from FeelGood45.

2. Use the hashtag #celebration in the first part of your post.

3. In that post, share your 2 best before/after photos.

In your Facebook celebration post, include your favorite white T-shirt Skin Tone Discovery photo from week 2 where you submitted your beautiful self to Lea.

Also include your favorite photo from the photoshoot you just did in week 11. Look at that… accidental before/after photo where you are your gorgeous, lovely self in BOTH photos!! #BeforeIsBeautiful!!

Bonus Training Library

Additional Encouragement

Self-Love & Weight Loss

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The plans referred to in the video are from a past version of my work. The lessons are available in You Are Unlimited, which you will have the opportunity to join if you’d like upon graduating.

Betty's Beautilities

Photoshoots At Home Alone

1. Home Studio Setup

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  1. The ring light I use.
  2. I was gifted the box lights I have. If I were to buy them, I’d probably buy this set.
  3. These are the curtains I use in my studio.
  4. This is the bluetooth remote control I use to take photos of myself with.
  5. This is the heavy-duty background stand I use to support my paper roll backgrounds.
  6. This is the white seamless background paper I use. I purchase the “Super White Seamless Paper – 107 in (w) x 36 ft (h).”



  1. Lightroom CC Mobile (Requires a subscription. Totally worth it.)
  2. Snapseed App (Free option for editing.)
  3. VSCO app
  4. Over app
  5. TouchRetouch app

*I am not liable for product recommendations nor the safety of external links. If a link or product has changed, has a better price elsewhere, or looks “sketchy” — don’t download it or buy it. Do your own research to find what is best for you!!

2. Confidence on Camera

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Download the Confidence on Camera Posing Guide
(To download, click the link. Then Right click on the document and choose “Save as” to save it to your hard drive.)

Studio items I used to in the above posing video:

What do you wear? Wear what lights YOU up.

  • Need new clothes but don’t want to invest in buying a new wardrobe? Here’s my secret: You can rent 4 gorgeous outfits per month for less than $100. Value of each outfit/dress ranges from $100-3,000 per dress but you can rent them all!

  • One of my favorite ways to change up a look is by changing my lipstick color and my pose. Below is a short video about lip colors along with some images from models I love.

The women in the photos below know their bodies are the true works of art. The way they change up the look of their bodies is by playing with clothing items, props, and lipstick colors. Get inspired & enjoy!

Images discussed in the video:

3. Taking Gorgeous Photos With Your iPhone

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You can take photos with the remote control + your regular camera app, but know that you will have a lot less creative control over the quality of the image.

In the Lightroom CC Mobile app, make sure your images are set to DNG before shooting. Watch the “Taking photos with Lightroom CC Mobile” video for instructions on correcting this setting.

Instagram Story images and video are in the 16:9 ratio.

Instagram feed images ideally should be in 4:5 ratio as these take up the most “real estate” on the feed when people are scrolling.

  • In the “Taking photos with Lightroom CC Mobile” video, I taught you to take photos in 4:3 because it’s the closest setting to 4:5. This means you will need to crop your images to be 4:5 in order to post them to Instagram.

Step 1: Use a tripod 100% of the time.

Step 2: Use your bluetooth remote or the camera timer inside of Lightroom CC.

Step 3: Keep your phone flat and straight up facing you. Do NOT tilt your camera.

⬇️ This is a giant “NO.” 

⬇️ The camera at face level standing flat, straight up looks great:

(You could totally take a selfie like the one pictured here with natural light filtered through a white curtain with your tripod and remote!)

Tilted selfies with the phone above your head = duck face. That is NOT what we are doing here, babe.

4. Editing Photos

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Removing Objects From Images With TouchRetouch

How to Hire Someone On Fiverr To Remove The Backgrounds of your Images

Save Boat Loads of Time… Hire Someone on Fiverr to Remove the Backgrounds from your Images.

Here’s the exact script I use when I hire my guy on Fiverr to remove the backgrounds from my images:

Please remove the background of these 5 images.
– Do NOT remove any animals, chairs, or props. Please leave them in.
– All final photos should be in .png format.

Thanks so much! :)”

Then I attach a zip file of the images.


Changing the Background Color of Your Images in Over App

How I use Over App to add text to my images:



DISCLAIMER: The information provided here is meant for informational purpose only and is not meant to replace any professional diagnosis or advice. If you suspect you have a medical condition, mental health condition, or plan to change your diet or fitness routine, please consult with your doctor first.

This program is dedicated to Kevin, Ryan, Fesser, & Stewart... the brothers who taught me that I am loved simply because I am. They are the men who helped me see that I Am Enough.

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